I’m Glad We’re a Resilient Nation, But I’d Rather Be a Proactive One

Donnabeth Aniban
2 min readJul 29, 2022
Photo by Caleb Lumingkit on Unsplash

Filipinos are resilient. This is the story we keep telling whenever disaster strikes. I know we are. But what if this story is hurting our chances to get better and get treated better?

Resilient: able to withstand or recover quickly from difficult conditions. The Filipino smiling and pushing through a disaster became romanticized. It’s as if it’s okay for us to suffer because we can get through the toughest times with smiles on our faces.

In an interview, a Filipina was asked how she felt about her house being flooded. It’s okay, we’re used to it, she said. It’s hard to fathom how someone can be okay with having their house flooded almost every year. How someone can be used to getting their things soaked whenever typhoons come?

There are around 20 typhoons that hit the Philippines every year, five of which are destructive. We are one of the countries experiencing the most typhoons annually. But year after year, it seems like we’re learning little from our experiences. Or maybe we know what to do, but we’re just lazy, scared, or corrupt so we don’t move. We’re resilient anyway. It’s our badge of honor.

Disasters are the favorite playgrounds of politicians. They come with bags of rice, canned goods, and noodles with their names and faces plastered on the…

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Donnabeth Aniban

Mom since 2011. Filipino. Former nurse and teacher. Writer, entrepreneur, and law student atm.